I'm glad you learned to ask for and accept help. As you've learned, being able to help is a blessing to the helpers also. It's frustrating to find out that we could have been useful but didn't know of a need. When your life settles down, you'll be in a better position to help others and will have the benefit of your experiences to share. Sharing (as giver or recipient) is good for all involved.
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