So sorry for the late reply- I did not see your post until tonight! I am not active on any lymphedema support sites at this time. Probably like you, I check out the internet from time to time. I am not sure if you are interested in a compression pump, but after 5 months of use, I believe my leg is more pliable over all and is a bit smaller.
As to jeans, I am down to only one pair that are cropped with wide leg- no binding what so ever! Someone told me not to be concerned about hiding my port scar- it is a badge of courage and strength that I have earned.
I wish you continued good health 😊.