BarbTako

Posting since January 01, 1970

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I Was a Bad Sport About My Cancer
April 07, 2016
Thank you for being understanding. I agree--I can't change the past (but maybe others can learn from me being willing to talk about it and embarrass myself a bit) and cancer is very scary the first time in a society that doesn't do well talking about death. I did write a book to help fellow survivors "Cancer Survivorship Coping Tools" and I love your idea about writing a book with perspectives of many different people and their thoughts about their cancer. Appreciate your ideas above!

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Cancer Rechecks: Coping With Worry and Waiting
February 12, 2016
Hi Laura Mary, Thank you for posting. Sending prayers and hugs. Stay busy this weekend! Yes, we are not alone, even when it feels that way!

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Cancer Rechecks: Coping With Worry and Waiting
February 11, 2016
Dear Golden1s, You ARE getting through and coping. Sadness and anger make sense some days and other happier emotions will come back gradually more and more into your life too. Hang in there and do be kind and gentle to yourself. Communicate to your doctors and spiritual leaders what is happening and how you are feeling. Sending prayers and hugs.

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Do I Trust My Body After Cancer? No.
February 06, 2016
Yes I have heard of others. I struggle with joint pain too but the doctors have attributed as a side effect to the anastrazole I am on because my cancer was ER+. With triple negative, I just don't know. Sorry. Might discuss this with your general practitioner too?

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Do I Trust My Body After Cancer? No.
February 04, 2016
Hi Pattie, I am not a research scientist--just a fellow patient. I just remember reading a study somewhere along this journey that said that cancer survivors were statistically more likely to have a cancer compared to the general population. Sorry I am not more help.

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Safety Net Gone: A Breast Cancer Survivor Stops Anastrazole
January 22, 2016
Exactly, Dana! Thank you for posting too!

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Safety Net Gone: A Breast Cancer Survivor Stops Anastrazole
January 20, 2016
Hi. Yep, that is what I have read about arimidex too. Thank you for posting and for reading my book!

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Tired, Tired of Being Tired, but not Quitting
November 18, 2015
This is great information. Thank you! www.cpaptalk.com!

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Unhappy During Pink October
October 28, 2015
Thank you to Justme (no worries about the extra posts) and to everyone else who is discussing my pink October article here. I am humbled and grateful for all your excellent thoughts and understandable frustrations. I wish I could have coffee and discuss with all of you. Excellent ideas, please keep them coming, and hopefully that will help get our ideas out there!

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Cancer Beginners: Tips from a Two-Time Survivor
October 28, 2015
Hi Kimmie, I probably need to clarify--my first diagnosis was breast cancer and my second diagnosis was melanoma on the shoulder on the opposite side from the breast cancer. I wasn't happy about the second cancer but my long-term odds for the melanoma are about the same odds of my breast cancer returning. I was unhappy and upset, but I knew the drill and sort of felt, hmm, resigned? I am weary of having skin checks and biopsies every 3 months and additional larger excisions removed each time the lab finds something it doesn't like. Moving forward takes lots of time--years rather than months, in my opinion, to get through some of the scans and, hopefully, some of the side effects will gradually improve for ...

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Cancer Beginners: Tips from a Two-Time Survivor
October 26, 2015
Aloha from Minnesota. Very good question. I hope others chime in. I think everyone who has had cancer has more anxiety and stress now with the pre-scan stage. Some people stress several months in advance. Others, a few days or anywhere in-between. My suggestions are to try to use techniques that will help calm you and talk to one or more people who understand what you are talking about--you don't have to go this part alone either! If you have a belief system to help that might provide some comfort too. I try to refocus, tell myself not to stress about what I can't control, and to put everything in God's hands. I think the answers to your question are as varied as the number

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Chemo Brain: A Breast Cancer Survivor's Commentary
September 29, 2015
Barb here. Thank you all for understanding what I was trying to say in the article. It does help to feel less alone. I am blessed and grateful for your responses and great ideas.

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It Gets Better After the Shock of an Initial Cancer Diagnosis
August 30, 2015
Hi golden1, thank you for writing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep me posted. Maybe it will be easier to process when there is a medical plan in place. It is hard to deal with bad news combined with unknowns. If you have a safe place, go curl up in it and be gentle with yourself. I know--easier said than done. Take care.

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Cancer Fatigue: Tired of Being Tired
July 28, 2015
Wow. Thank you all. I definitely feel less alone with this, but it also sad there are so many of us struggling so far out with fatigue. Just to clarify, I was 46 at diagnosis, and I am now 52, yet my body feels much older than that to me. I hope everyone reads each others' comments and ideas. Honestly, there is more good information in the links and comments then in my article.

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Cancer Fatigue: Tired of Being Tired
July 23, 2015
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Maybe persistence with our doctors and insistence in getting referrals is part of this? I don't know. Like we want to spend more time with docs..lol

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