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An Inspired Healer, Leader and Guide
September 30, 2017 – D.S.
Going the Extra Mile for Patients With Cancer
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My Oncology Nurse, the Sunshine in My Life
September 23, 2017 – Arlene McGrotty
Learning a New Level of Gratitude as a Patient With Cancer
September 17, 2017 – Emerald Cromwell
More Than Just a Patient With Cancer
September 16, 2017 – Steve Messiter
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September 03, 2017 – Mona Amundson
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September 02, 2017 – Stuart Kremer, D.O.
My Oncology Nurse Gave Me a Birthday to Remember
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My Oncology Nurse Is a Soul Healer
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A Saving Grace in Cancer Care
August 20, 2017 – Julie Cox
The Heart, Soul and Laughter of Healing
August 19, 2017 – Bobbie Chew Bigby
The Oncology Nurse Who Goes There
August 13, 2017 – Danielle Burgess
I Thought My Oncology Nurse Was an Angel
August 12, 2017 – Connie J. Trotter
Appreciating the Hardest-Working Oncology Nurse I Know
August 06, 2017 – Kevin Dimit
Restoring My Faith in Medicine — and Humanity
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Joy: An Oncology Nurse Who Fits Her Name
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Dealing With the Pride and Toughness of a Soldier With Cancer
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Bringing Hogwarts to the Oncology Unit
July 22, 2017 – Debra Jacobs
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July 20, 2017 – Jill Vondrasek, MBA Marketing and Communications Director, Michigan State University College of Nursing
A Positive Guiding Light for Oncology Patients
July 14, 2017 – Mollie Maggied, M.H.A., B.S.N., RN, CPN, ATC Assistant Nurse Manager, Blood and Marrow Transplant Program, The Ohio State University James Cancer Hospital
Oncology Nurse Is in Tune With the Patient's Spirit
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Oncology Nurse Inspires Patients, Health Care Team
July 15, 2017 – Abbey Brockman, RN, B.S.N., OCN Nurse Manager, Westwood Exam/Radiation Oncology, University of Kansas Cancer Center
Putting Our Hearts Into Cancer Care
July 08, 2017 – Eileen Dwyer, RN
An Extraordinary Oncology Nurse: I Wish We Could Clone Her
July 01, 2017 – Jeffrey M. Farma, M.D. Associate Professor of Surgical Oncology, Fox Chase Cancer Center, Philadelphia
The Magic Fit of Oncology Nursing
June 25, 2017 – Fred Hardwicke, M.D. Hematology/Medical Oncology Fellowship Program Director, Texas Tech Medical Center — Department of Internal Medicine
My Charge Nurse, Teacher, Mentor, Co-Worker and Friend
June 24, 2017 – Geovanny Gomez, CNA Providence St. John’s Health Center, Santa Monica, California
Moving Mountains to Help Patients - and Staff
June 18, 2017 – Marci Dahl Office Manager, HMS Oncology
A Tireless Patient Advocate
June 16, 2017 – Svetomir Markovic, M.D., Ph.D. Mayo Clinic, Rochester, Minnesota
Extraordinary Healer of the Soul and Body
June 08, 2017 – Gwendolyn Brack
Oncology Nursing Is Not Just a Job, It's a Calling
June 02, 2017 – Ellijah Legaspi
A Lifetime of Impact for Patients With Cancer
May 26, 2017 – Andy Seibert
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Dispelling the Cloud of Cancer
October 01, 2017 – James G. Coe, Ph.D.
An Inspired Healer, Leader and Guide
September 30, 2017 – D.S.
Going the Extra Mile for Patients With Cancer
September 24, 2017 – Elaine Suva-Bongiovi
My Oncology Nurse, the Sunshine in My Life
September 23, 2017 – Arlene McGrotty
Learning a New Level of Gratitude as a Patient With Cancer
September 17, 2017 – Emerald Cromwell
More Than Just a Patient With Cancer
September 16, 2017 – Steve Messiter
An Extraordinary Nurse Gave My Husband an 11-Year Lifeline
September 03, 2017 – Mona Amundson
Come With Me on My Cancer Journey With Trish
September 02, 2017 – Stuart Kremer, D.O.
My Oncology Nurse Gave Me a Birthday to Remember
August 26, 2017 – Lydia Conroy
My Oncology Nurse Is a Soul Healer
August 28, 2017 – Kelley Kramer
A Saving Grace in Cancer Care
August 20, 2017 – Julie Cox
The Heart, Soul and Laughter of Healing
August 19, 2017 – Bobbie Chew Bigby
The Oncology Nurse Who Goes There
August 13, 2017 – Danielle Burgess
I Thought My Oncology Nurse Was an Angel
August 12, 2017 – Connie J. Trotter
Appreciating the Hardest-Working Oncology Nurse I Know
August 06, 2017 – Kevin Dimit
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August 05, 2017 – Kalia Douglas-Micallef
Joy: An Oncology Nurse Who Fits Her Name
July 30, 2017 – Susan Edgington
Currently Viewing
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July 22, 2017 – Debra Jacobs
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A Positive Guiding Light for Oncology Patients
July 14, 2017 – Mollie Maggied, M.H.A., B.S.N., RN, CPN, ATC Assistant Nurse Manager, Blood and Marrow Transplant Program, The Ohio State University James Cancer Hospital
Oncology Nurse Is in Tune With the Patient's Spirit
July 16, 2017 – Sherry Johnson, M.S.N., CPON, NE-BC Fundamentals of Magnet® Certificate Holder Director of Nursing Excellence St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital
Oncology Nurse Inspires Patients, Health Care Team
July 15, 2017 – Abbey Brockman, RN, B.S.N., OCN Nurse Manager, Westwood Exam/Radiation Oncology, University of Kansas Cancer Center
Putting Our Hearts Into Cancer Care
July 08, 2017 – Eileen Dwyer, RN
An Extraordinary Oncology Nurse: I Wish We Could Clone Her
July 01, 2017 – Jeffrey M. Farma, M.D. Associate Professor of Surgical Oncology, Fox Chase Cancer Center, Philadelphia
The Magic Fit of Oncology Nursing
June 25, 2017 – Fred Hardwicke, M.D. Hematology/Medical Oncology Fellowship Program Director, Texas Tech Medical Center — Department of Internal Medicine
My Charge Nurse, Teacher, Mentor, Co-Worker and Friend
June 24, 2017 – Geovanny Gomez, CNA Providence St. John’s Health Center, Santa Monica, California
Moving Mountains to Help Patients - and Staff
June 18, 2017 – Marci Dahl Office Manager, HMS Oncology
A Tireless Patient Advocate
June 16, 2017 – Svetomir Markovic, M.D., Ph.D. Mayo Clinic, Rochester, Minnesota
Extraordinary Healer of the Soul and Body
June 08, 2017 – Gwendolyn Brack
Oncology Nursing Is Not Just a Job, It's a Calling
June 02, 2017 – Ellijah Legaspi
A Lifetime of Impact for Patients With Cancer
May 26, 2017 – Andy Seibert
Caring for Patients Always, Always, Always with a Smile
May 26, 2017 – Jennifer Littke
A Life Devoted to Patients With Cancer
May 26, 2017 – AN INTERVIEW WITH JANET SCHADEE, M.S.N.
The Front Line of Urologic Cancer
May 23, 2017 – George J.S. Kallingal, M.D., M.P.H. Major, MC, USA Staff Surgeon, Urologic Oncology, Brooke Army Medical Center
When Children Are Her Job
May 21, 2017 – AN INTERVIEW WITH JESSICA KOBS, RN
The Hero I Needed During Cancer
May 20, 2017 – Jackson Pagel
Oncology Found Her
May 19, 2017 – AN INTERVIEW WITH SARA SARGENTE, RN, OCN
Helping Patients Fight Cancer With All Her Heart and Soul
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Dealing With the Pride and Toughness of a Soldier With Cancer

An Extraordinary Healer essay honoring ROSS FOOTE, OCN [JACK C. MONTGOMERY VA MEDICAL CENTER, MUSKOGEE, OKLAHOMA]
BY Carol Kelly
PUBLISHED July 29, 2017
Carol Kelly and Ross Foote, OCN
 - PHOTOS BY MELINDA HUNLEY
Carol Kelly and Ross Foote, OCN - PHOTOS BY MELINDA HUNLEY
Having been through cancer myself, I was unfortunately familiar with the procedures. So when my husband, George Carson, was diagnosed, we knew the general routine. What we didn’t expect was for his therapy to be so severe. Being a Vietnam combat veteran, he was trained to not ask for help and never give up. So when he was given a 20 percent chance for survival, we dug in and went to work.

George started intense radiation and chemotherapy for inoperable lung cancer. Ross Foote was the nurse who first took his case. There was trouble with the IV for the chemo, but Ross was extremely competent and able to work out the issues, reassuring George at the same time. Ross instinctively knew that, in dealing with a soldier, there is a lot of pride and toughness. Ross was able to relate to George on that level. He took time to find George’s interests and found common ground in discussions about football. As they favored different teams, it created a running thread of conversation that eased the pain, fear and tedium that comes with chemotherapy.

As time and therapy continued, Ross made it a point to always be in the lab on the days that George was scheduled. When the radiation blistered George’s back, Ross was there offering help and support. Eventually, George needed a feeding tube inserted. Ross explained what was being done and why. I don’t believe George could have accepted the therapies recommended had it not been for Ross. Ross stayed late the day George had the tube inserted, just to make sure all was going well, and to let George know that he cared. By this time, there were tumors in George’s esophagus. Ross was promoted to an administrative position, but he still came to the lab every time George was scheduled. He would help out if needed or just spend some time with George, joking and talking about anything George wanted.

George finished his treatments and seemed to be doing quite well. The tumors were shrinking, and George was able to breathe again, though he still had the feeding tube. Ross and his wife had a baby about this time and were considering two names for the baby, one of which was Carson, after George.

George died at home unexpectedly last July, one week after his final chemo treatment. As soon as Ross heard about George, he sent a beautiful card to me. It was a personal one that he selected and mailed. Since then, he has been in contact through email, making sure I am OK and sharing photos. He stays in contact with me, even though more than a year has gone by since George passed.

Ross’ concern is genuine, and his efforts to ease the suffering of others are a part of his character. It is evident every time you speak with him. He is obviously a leader, as the other nurses show tremendous respect for him. I am nominating Ross in order to bring some recognition for the man he is and the people he has helped. With all of the “bad press” given about the Veterans Administration, Ross and the other nurses at the Jack C. Montgomery Medical Center in Muskogee, Oklahoma, are shining lights in the darkness of so many veterans’ lives.
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