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Pinktober

BY GUEST BLOGGER | OCTOBER 31, 2013

Carrie Corey
Dig out your "Save the Boobies" button, "Real Men Wear Pink" t-shirt and pink ribbon yard stake – it's Pinktober! Unless you've been living under a rock since the first Susan G. Komen for the Cure® (then the Susan G. Komen Foundation) event in 1982, you know October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

When I was first diagnosed with breast cancer, joining the pink sea of survivors at Race for the Cure was uplifting and unforgettable. With four rounds of chemo down and two more to go, I held my bald head high as I struggled to walk a mile, arm in arm with my family and friends. Two years later, Mom and I proudly walked 60 miles to cross the finish line at the Susan G. Komen 3-Day for the Cure.

Celebrating as a survivor helped put cancer behind me. Been there, done that. I had survived cancer, and I was moving on with my life. Embracing the "breast cancer survivor" label gave me an excuse to shop for hot pink, this time with a percentage of my purchase benefiting a breast cancer charity.

When we found out last year my breast cancer had returned in my lungs, liver and bones, the same label that comforted me during my initial diagnosis haunted me the second time around. I couldn't even shop for toilet paper during the month of October without being reminded I was no longer a cancer survivor.

Last week a fellow metavivor (metastatic breast cancer survivor) posted on Facebook about "going postal" in line at the post office. When she heard the clerk bragging about dollars raised with the breast cancer awareness stamp, she felt compelled to tell shoppers that while she was grateful for the donation to our cause, those dollars aren't going to keep her alive any longer.

Most people don't know their loved one didn't die from breast cancer...she/he died from metastatic breast cancer--when the cancer cells leave the breast and settle in a critical organ such as the lungs, liver, bones or brain. And even though 30 percent of breast cancers will become metastatic, less than five percent of breast cancer funds are actually directed toward fighting metastatic disease. Because of that statistic, there are a lot of hard feelings about PINK among the metastatic breast cancer community.

As a result, metavivors are advocating for change: we want 30 percent of breast cancer funds directed to fight metastatic disease, because 30 percent of funds should benefit 30 percent of patients.

After much consideration this Pinktober, I have decided to sit on both sides of the fence. I will advocate for change while embracing PINK. I pledge to never again scowl at the football players' hot pink shoes; I will not grumble when a store clerk tries to sell something because a percentage of proceeds benefits breast cancer awareness; and I refuse to scoff at the pink-labeled toilet paper.

Maybe my new perspective stems from believing a positive attitude helps fight my day-to-day battle with cancer, or maybe I'm just riding the high of last month's clear PET scan.(I am officially what some people call "dancing with NED." NED = No Evidence of Disease = WOO-HOO!!!)

Either way, here's the bottom line: I am a 33-year old wife, mom, daughter, sister, niece, cousin, aunt and friend. There are people that depend on me, namely my husband and 21-month old little guy, Henry. They need someone to find a cure in my lifetime, therefore I have to believe PINK will come through for us. Like it or not, the only way we're going to find that cure is by working together. Because we really are all fighting the same two-headed monster.

So just like my favorite pink button says, "Big or Small, Let's Save Them All."


Carrie and her mom, Lana participated in the 2011 Susan G. Komen 3-Day for the Cure.

Carrie Corey was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer at age 29 and with a stage 4 recurrence in 2012 at the age of 31. She is a wife and new mom living in Dallas, and will be reporting frequently on her cancer experiences.

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I cannot tell you just how much I liked this post. Family and friends struggle to find ways to support and raise awareness for breast cancer patients and survivors. They're not perfect but their efforts are sincere. And it's always nice to know where we need to push for more resources. Keep up the good work!!!!
- Posted by Ruby Vansickle 11/1/13 9:13 AM

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