Ovarian Cancer Survivor Reflects on Doctor’s Support That Eased Surgery Fears

When Mary Barbera was diagnosed with stage 3C ovarian cancer at age 48, she found strength in the guidance of her dedicated care team at John Theurer Cancer Center. Ahead of her surgery, Dr. Donna Klobocista took time to walk through every step of the process, explaining what to expect and even drawing diagrams to help Mary and her husband fully understand what might happen and why.

This thorough and compassionate approach gave Mary confidence going into surgery and helped ease her fears during an incredibly vulnerable time. Although her journey also included the later loss of her husband, she felt fully prepared for what was ahead thanks to the groundwork her team had laid. She also credits nurse Aretha DiSalvo and Dr. Sarah McNamara for their vital roles in her treatment and recovery. Now at age 56 and in remission, she mentors others facing cancer, offering the same reassurance, strength and perspective she once received — and reminding them they are never alone.

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How did Klobocista’s approach help ease your fears before surgery?

Well, I lost my husband while I was sick, but at the time I was diagnosed, he was still with us. We had a meeting with Klobocista before my surgery. We went to the cancer center and sat in her office, and she really took her time with us. She went through everything — step by step — and explained exactly what would happen and what might happen. She even drew pictures to help us visualize it all.

She was incredibly thorough and honest, and everything she said would happen, did happen. Even the things she said might happen — unfortunately, they did. But because of her, I was fully prepared. I knew what to expect, and that helped so much. She just made me feel ready. I had confidence in her.

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