Like in life, the only constant in cancer is change. Fighting it just adds to the misery.
It's easy to hate change, especially when it barges in frightening and unwanted. Usually, the first instinct is to fight it every step of the way. But if it's serenity you seek, you're only going to get there by accepting the changes you cannot change.
When I'm struggling with change (which happens much more than I like to admit) the following help me see things through different eyes:
The very moment cancer comes into your life, it is changed forever. The struggle is how to accept change you have no control over and still somehow move ahead. If you want to talk about accepting change in your life, I'll meet you in the CURE discussion group.