Blogs
Grief and Gratitude
I think it was Theodore Geisel (aka Dr Seuss) who said “Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”
How My Nurses Dragged Me Across the Cancer Finish Line
I remember my first trip to the “chemo room”.
Five Years of Metastatic Breast Cancer: My Survival Stats
The statistics for metastatic are grim, so I made a list of my own numbers instead.
Don't Tell Me I'm Not a Cancer Survivor!
I will continue to say that I am a “survivor,” and that is the best title I could ever receive.
The Donkey and the Goat: How I Supported My Mom Through a Cancer Scare
Dealing with my cancer was much easier than dealing with the possibility of my mother’s cancer.
The Chemo Shortage Has Me Thinking About How Lucky I Am
I was diagnosed with cancer just as the pandemic hit.
New Roles in Life After Cancer
Raising awareness for cancer survivors is important, and I try to do just that.
Six Degrees of Separation for Cancer Genetics
In my wife’s family, the same pathogenic BRCA2 mutation is shared among 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th and possibly 6th degree (too young to test) blood relatives.
My Early Encounters With Cancer Vs. My Cancer Life Today
Anticipating a cancer scan, I think back on my early encounters with cancer.
Beau’s Lines: Another Cancer Side Effect They Don’t Tell You About
After chemo treatment, my nails were like tree trunks — showing ages and environmental stress with ridges.
My Psychological Response to a Cancer Diagnosis
I have a confession: I daydreamed of a “last hurrah” should my cancer treatment not work.
Runny Nose: Another Unexpected Side Effect from Cancer Treatment
Lymphoma treatment came with a number of unexpected side effects for me, including a runny nose.
Decluttering Can Help With Cancer
I experienced unexpected rewards of decluttering.
When Surviving Cancer Means You Can Mow the Lawn
Surviving cancer means not just checking items off a bucket list, but also taking pleasure in doing the mundane, from sweeping a porch to mowing a lawn.
Tips I Learned During Inpatient Chemo and Bone Marrow Transplant
After two diagnoses of acute myeloid leukemia, intense chemo and a bone marrow transplant, I’ve learned some things that helped me along the way.
Cancer Memories Can Taste Different
Most cancer memories are triggering for me, but one place is particularly sweet when I think back on it.
Learning to Reframe Empowers Me to as I Live With Chronic Cancer
After being diagnosed with an incurable cancer, I had to reframe my thinking to focus on the positive.
The Importance of Age- and Disease-Specific Cancer Support
I learned that finding the right kind of support during and after a cancer diagnosis is truly invaluable.
The ‘New Normal’ of Food After Chemo
While my taste buds have returned to normal after cancer treatment, my desire to cook and eat has not.
The Inequity of Cancer Survival
I’ve learned that “survivor’s guilt” can be another symptom of our disease.
Fighting Cancer is a Game of Adjustments
I remember hearing somewhere that there’s no such thing as achieving the perfect balance; rather, life itself is an act of constant rebalancing. I've found that to be true in life with cancer.
The Cancer Test Not Taken
Genetic testing is the norm for cancer patients with familial history. How did I let it slip through the crack?
Chemo Side Effects They Don’t Always Tell You About
When starting chemotherapy, I was expecting hair and weight loss, but was caught off guard when my mouth began to hurt.
Starting Chemotherapy: Balancing Knowledge With Naïveté
Sure, knowledge is power, but there’s comfort in naïveté, too, when it comes to expectations for cancer care.
Cancer Helps Me Separate the Wheat from the Chaff
Cancer taught me not to worry about the little things.
A Case for the Human Cancer Survivor in a World of AI
Artificial intelligence is becoming increasingly popular and can even write generic poems about the cancer experience. However, I feel that they cannot compare to the writings of people who actually lived with the disease.
Hereditary Cancer Advocacy and Looking into My Genetic Inheritance
I recently underwent genetic testing to see if I had any mutations that could be associated with an increased cancer risk.
Did I Cause My Cancer Diagnosis?
Lasting guilt gets no one anywhere — especially when it comes to cancer.
A Special Patient With Cancer Made an Indelible Mark
I’m mourning the death of a patient with cancer who I had never met in person, yet I loved and admired her just the same.
The Other Side of Shared Cancer Experiences
After my daughter was diagnosed with cancer, I began to share my experiences through writing, and through that I found camaraderie — and heartbreak.