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Stress develops whenever you start to feel that your responsibilities are greater than the time, energy, or other resources that you have to meet them. It is no wonder, then, that stress is so common among caregivers of people coping with cancer, who face so many competing demands. Feeling stressed and overwhelmed from caring for someone who has cancer is not a sign that you are failing as a caregiver. But since stress can affect your health, it is important to find ways to manage it. Here are some coping tips:

 Learning as much as you can about the cancer, how it’s treated, and what resources are available to you can reduce uncertainty and stress.

 Caregivers can feel unprepared to provide the medical care their loved one needs at home. If there are responsibilities you are unsure about, discuss it with the members of your loved one’s health care team. Make sure you understand their instructions, and write them down so you don’t forget what you need to do. Find out who you can call with any questions that come up.

 Consider speaking directly with a nurse, doctor, or pharmacist about your concerns. One-on-one conversation can help keep things simple, provide reassurance, and give you information tailored to your needs.

 One of the quickest ways to reduce your stress is to cut back on the number of things you need to do yourself. Make a list of all the tasks or responsibilities you have, and cross off any that can be put off until a later time. Next, decide which tasks must be done by you, and which could be done by someone else. Then, ask other people for help with those tasks. It is not a sign of weakness to need help — you will likely find that others want to help but just need some guidance.

 Sometimes it may be easiest to grab fast food or to skip a meal, but don’t make this a habit. Strive to eat balanced meals regularly. A diet that consists mostly of plant-based foods is best. Include plenty of fruits and vegetables.

 Working out is one of the best things you can do to stay healthy and keep up your stamina. Experts recommend doing 30 minutes of an activity that gets your heart rate up (such as walking briskly or jogging) four to five times a week, and doing exercises that help maintain flexibility, such as yoga or Pilates, one to two times a week.

 Practice good sleeping habits by taking time to wind down and relax before bedtime, and try to get six to eight hours of sleep per night. Practicing relaxation techniques and deep-breathing exercises can also help reduce stress.

Keep up with your own doctor’s appointments and medications.

 Make sure you get regular checkups from your primary care physician and for any health conditions you may have. Stay on track with your medications and recommended cancer screenings such as mammograms and colonoscopies.

 Don’t keep your emotions bottled up. Sharing your feelings with someone you trust — your partner, sibling, other family member, friend, spiritual leader, or social worker – can make your concerns seem more manageable. Caregiver support groups are also available. These can give you an opportunity to meet and learn from others in similar situations.

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Feeling stressed and overwhelmed from caring for someone who has cancer is not a sign that you are failing as a caregiver. But since stress can affect your health, it is important to find ways to manage it. 

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